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A Working Mom's Dilemma

Feminist Anthropology Professor under fire for nursing her sick daughter during class.

 

 

Recently, Amanda Pine, single mom and assistant professor of anthropology at American University in Washington, D.C., found herself in a tight spot. Her year-old daughter Lee woke up with a fever and couldn't be dropped off at daycare.

Since it was the first day of Pine's class on Sex, Gender and Culture, she didn't want to cancel at the last minute. So she decided to take her baby to work with her. It was a bit of juggle for Pine to keep her daughter occupied for the 75 -minute long lecture.

The baby, who alternated from being strapped on Pine's back to crawling at her feet, found herself in all sorts of precarious situations. At one point Pine had to fish a paper clip out of her daughter's mouth and also had to snatch her up before she played with an electrical outlet. Pine's teaching assistant held the infant though Pine insisted the job description didn't include babysitting.

When little Lee grew restless, Pine did what she did often to calm her daughter, and briefly breastfed her while continuing the lecture. Luckily, her daughter drifted off to sleep and Pine was able to give her full concentration to finish up class.

Apparently, some of the students were offended and complained about Pine's breastfeeding her daughter in the classroom. The next morning she was contacted by a reporter from the school's student newspaper, The Eagle. In an e-mail the reporter asked her to "discuss what had happened in class."

Suddenly Pine found herself in the middle of a controversy. What began as a typical working mom's dilemma suddenly exploded into a debate about breastfeeding in the workplace. She was shocked that the incident was even considered "newsworthy" and felt that the student reporter had hounded her for details.

In an essay titled "Exposéing My Breasts on the Internet," Pine told her side of the story at Counterpunch.org, exposing e-mails exchanged with the school reporter and charging the paper with creating a “hostile work environment.”  She's also asked The Eagle not publish the story. The newspaper hasn't yet run it. From the essay:

If I considered feeding my child to be a “delicate” or sensitive act, I would not have done it in front of my students. Nor would I have spent the previous year doing it on buses, trains and airplanes; on busy sidewalks and nice restaurants; in television studios and while giving plenary lectures to large conferences. I admit those lectures haven’t always gone so well (baby can get fidgety), but as a single parent without help or excess income, my choice has been between sacrificing my professional life and slogging through it.

It seems that many students at the University had strong opinions about the breastfeeding incident and commented about it in the newspaper's rants section. One student wrote:

Professor Pine is one of the most unprofessional people at AU. It’s hard to maintain your reputation as a scholar when you’re making your classroom a distracting environment. If there’s a baby there, everyone is going to be watching it the whole time to make sure it doesn’t die. Whether it’s on your boobs or not is not the issue, and her diatribe only emphasizes a lack of professionalism.

American University issued a statement about the incident and chastised Pine for bringing her sick child to work, saying, "For the sake of the child and the public health of the campus community, when faced with the challenge of caring for a sick child in the case where backup childcare is not available, a faculty member should take earned leave and arrange for someone else to cover the class, not bring a sick child into the classroom.”

As far as nursing her baby in class, AU noted that the university policy provides breaks and private rooms for mothers who wish to express milk during work hours.

Do you think that Pine was wrong to bring her sick infant to work with her? Was it inappropriate for her to breastfeed her daughter in front of the students? Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

Related Topics: Working Moms, breastfeeding in public, and moms talk

Jesse

8:56 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

She used horrible judgement taking a sick baby to work with her. The breastfeeding thing is almost a side issue because her daughter should have been at home in the first place. That being said, America is so afraid of seeing a breast unless it's flaunting a bra in a huge Victoria's Secret ad. It's so sad that the students would be offended by it. Also, what AU might not realise is that when a baby is hungry, they aren't going to sit quietly and wait while mommy hides in designated pumping spot. Please, a man must have written that statement.

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Leigh Hewett

9:40 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

It seems like she made a bad call taking her feverish baby to work with her. It must be so frustrating to be a single mom and not have support. I feel bad for her that AU is making such a big deal about this, even if she made the wrong choice.

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Rebecca McCarthy

10:39 am on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Taking a feverish baby anywhere isn't a good idea unless one is headed to the doctor. She must have felt a lot of pressure to have chosen to do her lecture. I wonder if she has tenure? That may have influenced her decision....

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Linda Labbo

12:40 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The irony that students were offended by breastfeeding in a feminist class called "Sex, Gender and Culture" is not lost on me. Can the offended students use this occasion to reflect on their own gender and culture issues? I recommend an articel "Why women still can't it all! <http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/07/why-women-still-cant-have-it-all/309020/>;

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Risa Haynes

2:59 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

In trying to reflect back on how I might have felt when I was a young undergrad, I can see how bringing a baby (or a small child) to class would have been distracting for me. I love kids and would have been waaaay more interested in watching the baby than listening to the lecture. For me, the breastfeeding part would have been a total side note, as I have no issues with anyone's body. Unfortunately, it is in instances like these which grow larger than expected that a person finds themselves questioning their judgment. Hopefully she won't be suspended or anything that extreme. As far as the righteousness and judgment of the college kids in her class, well, it's easy to judge when you have so little personal life experience.

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Landis Hicks

4:07 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

I agree with all the previous comments. For me as an undergrad, I would have definitely been much more distracted by the unorthodox behavior of a professor having a baby in the lecture room. It would have been a welcome distraction and I even would have supported the breastfeeding at that age. The ignorance and immaturity over breastfeeding in public continues to amaze me about people of all ages. I, too, agree that the mistake was taking a sick child in the classroom. If Pine had no other option, and forethought on the issue that would ensue, she could have most definitely portrayed the event as "purposeful" toward an assignment.

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Tammy Osier

7:23 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Actually, I might have taken a feverish baby to work with me - especially if I wre a professor. However, having been to college, I know that there are plenty of opportunities to go into another room and breastfeed while an associate or other person occupied the folks for 30 minutes.
@ Linda LOLOLOL

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Tammy Osier

7:25 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Something else I don't get on all this public breastfeeding stuff. I breastfed ALL my kids (some even into toddlerhood). And I ALWAYS covered myself up. Actually, a blanket over the baby helps him/her to feel more comforted while nursing. I always felt that the scent of their blanket would make them sleepy.

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Rebecca McCarthy

7:35 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Tammy, that was public. You were just discreet. Most people are whom I've seen.

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Larry Reid

7:44 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Tammy, are you telling me you would go through all that trouble of modestly covering today on a Marta train if your baby was hungry? Who's going to take their eyes off their cell phone to see you? : -)

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Tammy Osier

7:48 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

@ Larry LOL
@ Rebecca - Yeah, that was my point. I don't understand NOT using discretion. Although, have you ever been in one of those classes? they totally believe in letting it all hang out figuratively speaking, so what's to stop them from thinking that everybody else thinks like them?

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Tammy Osier

7:50 pm on Wednesday, September 19, 2012

And for the record, I never did that in public. :) The most public I got was while a passenger in a car driving on the interstate. The blanket came in handy when truck drivers drove by. lol

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Sue Anderson

6:34 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012

I wouldn't have done it, but I probably wouldn't condemn it either. However, it's a bit much to expect her assistant to babysit.

;)

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Rex Smithers

7:04 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012

With sympathy for the baby I say, the Mother did what was best at the time. But… for the life of me, I will never understand anyone choosing a career over raising their own child. I have an opinion but would never tell a woman what she should be allowed to do with her own body (regarding abortion). I do however have a problem with a woman choosing to have a child while also choosing that someone else raise that child.
Our society promotes professional & financial success and that's fine but when you choose to bring another into this world, you damn well owe that child 100%. Choosing to drive an $80,000 Benz to drop your child off at daycare just seems unreasonable to me.
This of course is just 2 cents, coming from a man who has never birthed a child nor owned a Benz.

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Athens Mama

10:07 pm on Saturday, September 22, 2012

I can definitely sympathize with her situation as a single Mom, trying not to miss an important day of work. Rex, although I think you have some valid points, it doesn't sound like she has the option of not working. Unless you are a trustfund baby or your ex is very wealthy, single Moms have to work to make ends meet. I think society is too hung up on "professionalism" and separating parenthood from personhood. If you are viewing this issue from an American paradigm, then yes, it was an inappropriate move. If you are viewing this issue from an international "human" paradigm, then it's really not that big of a deal. It is a case of a Mom doing what was necessary to hold it together.

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Rebecca McCarthy

7:47 am on Sunday, September 23, 2012

Dear Chris, As you may remember, the Patch terms of use do not allow for personal attacks, and you crossed the line with your attack on Athens Mama. So I deleted your last comment. I realize a lot of these issues rile people up but please refrain from demeaning personal comments in the future. Patch like folks to play nice. Thanks. Rebecca

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